Ok, finally got around to changing the introduction text. But as you can see, I'm too sianz to write a proper one, so am going to blabber on in hopes that you will get an idea of what sort of person I am by guessing. Yeah, the format of this blog is crap. I haven't got around to fixing it. Later lah.. Much later...
To socialize into a group is not the responsibility of an individual; it's the responsibility of the group to practise inclusiveness.
If a newcomer fails to integrate into a group, it is the failure of the group - not the newcomer.
Many a times I feel people tend to throw the onus and initiative of creating new bonds onto the shoulders of someone - whom you must consider - is already dealing with the uncomfortable uncertainty of new surroundings. Totally green of the group culture, people and environment, it's ridiculous to expect a newcomer to integrate in, when it'd take so little effort for each person in the existing group to spare a little thought and practise inclusiveness out.
